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Owen Pearn (Owen Parachute) Owen Pearn (Owen Parachute)

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If you go parachuting, and your parachute doesn’t open, and your friends are all watching you fall, I think a funny gag would be to pretend you were swimming.

Jack Handey


“You make so much sense now in everything you said and it’s clicking”

Dude facing all of this stuff head on now from this and so on, you make so much sense now from two years ago to this day, all you said is 100% true from symptoms and so on. Letting go and facing this stuff the body freaks out. I threw out a ton of stuff from child hood yesterday and body freaked out! You make so much sense now in everything you said and it’s clicking. WOW. Thanks man!

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“Out of all drugs I’ve done this safety-threat crap has given the most freedom”

My triggers are sooooo down. I’m able to do tons of stuff I literally couldn’t even imagine myself doing just a while back. (even thinking about stuff I now can do in real life made me sick)

later:

When I try to remember [bad] memories they are SO FAR AWAY. Like trying to remember kindergarten time in general. I CAN kinda ..know I have been there. I know i did few years back explain these in great terrifying detail to few people and now I dont even know what those details were.

yeah this must be very boring to you but I just checked my brain library and remembering how I used to remember has changed so much.

later:

i was so scared to be ok, you never told me the person who would love the person i was hiding, would be me

later:

Out of all drugs I’ve done this safety-threat crap has given the most freedom.

theres so much more rope ahead than on the left.

but thing is I kept telling me I do it wrong. I don’t do it wrong. Its impossible based on all you said. I just draw in what i need the most, accept the prize.

its like tons of pressure i never even knew i have was wearing off after lifelong winter

finally i can stop doing whatever it is i didnt think i could stop even if i wanted to.

you’ve trained me so good what woudlnt i solve now.

fuck the ego death I´m going for identity from now on

its like i only now that it shifts i see i was where i was suffering, and i didnt about it.

theres nothing i wouldnt survive as long as i live. superpower. available for all.

why is everybody so beautiful.

must not fuck up future.

magic. magic all over my eyes. magic. love and magic.

youre different you dont save people you just its just different.

have people take survival selfies? make it a thing

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“thanks mate”

The main reason to email you rather than to compliment the countryside was that I want thank you. I planned to come up with a witty one liner or otherwise beautiful constructed quote for your website, but I’ll have to go with “thanks mate”. I wouldn’t be on this magnificent mini grand tour [south of the Equator] if it weren’t for the work that started with you almost 2 years ago.

I really was way more fucked up than I had imagined. Much less so now but still a healthy level of insanity to keep things interesting.

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“So happy to have such a breakthrough”

I know I was a difficult case and you thought I probably would not change but I have put what you told me into practise even though not as much as I probably should have and… I can control the fears I had in the past to the point that after 17 yrs of marriage and saying no to [my husband] to travel overseas, I decided to take that long flight and today I am typing this email to you from [a city far from home].

It was so amazing to be able to get on that flight and not panic like I usually did between [my city] and [the next city] then have to spend weeks with having treatments from the headaches and tightness in the neck and shoulders. The only soreness I have right now is sore leg muscles but that is from walking so much. So happy to have such a breakthrough and wanted to let you know I actually did it.

Anyway, thank you for what you do Owen you are awesome!!!

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The physician can bury his mistakes, but the architect can only advise his clients to plant vines.

Frank Lloyd Wright


“You understand me more than I do”

And you, Owen, are gold. I’ve never felt so understood by anyone in my life. You understand me more than I do, and I’m very grateful for your insight.

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“spawned the most extraordinary period of growth”

I’m happy with how my relationship and health are progressing and I also want to thank you for your coaching - it has spawned the most extraordinary period of growth since my depression 15 years ago and has put me on the path to being who I want to be.

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“I’m back doing things that I enjoy doing”

I have been doing well, and haven’t had any panic attacks. I feel the symptoms here and there but not like before and I don’t panic from it. I still get nervous from any feeling of nausea but I honestly havent done the excecise you sent on a regular basis. I’m definitely much much better than before and I’m back doing things that I enjoy doing. You have really helped me a lot.

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“If you are in any kind of distress, working with Owen is the greatest thing you can do for yourself”

I was in the middle of a crisis, which was ongoing for months, and was rapidly turning into a full blown trauma. I felt completely helpless, hopeless, lost, scared, suicidal, traumatized, victimized, angry, frustrated and very much at the end of my rope. I thought the emotional pain would never stop and was convinced that, not only was there no hope, but that there would NEVER be any hope. I seriously thought that if I took my life, everyone would be better off and maybe I’d even be more helpful ‘from the other side’.

Looking back now, it’s difficult to relate to any of that at all.

I laugh more. I feel happier. I have more and more moments of real bonding with my family. I’ve become more resourceful in ‘difficult’ situations which now seem not so difficult and I don’t ruminate on them or spend time going through the “I should have said that” or “I should have done that” scenarios. I stand up for myself more. I honour myself more. All the ‘unacceptable’ parts of myself that were seen as bad by other people no longer matter or their opinions no longer have an impact. I act and feel much more in control of my life and now choose my responses. I’ve learned that I don’t ‘have’ to feel that way - or any other way - if I choose not to.

My highs and lows aren’t all over the scale any more. My responses to people, places and situations that would have caused me to become incapacitated emotionally now have me responding in a very different and (for me) pleasing way. People are responding to me in a different and more pleasing way.

The tinnitus has virtually disappeared. There is supposedly no cure. It would vary between a high pitched whine, an ocean sound, or a combination of both, 24/7. I used to have chronic neck, shoulder and lower back pain and that is all disappearing. The TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorder) is completely gone, with only the occasional click. All these things have been ongoing for roughly 35 years. I have no idea what it’s like to be pain-free, so this is also an adjustment period for me because I have to learn how to use my body properly again instead of always compensating for some thing or another.

Owen is also a very intuitive, kind, non-judgmental and humorous man. Trusting him is easy. I never once felt ashamed or humiliated for sharing something with him and I’ve had a lot of conventional therapy where I felt really stupid for not being able to deal with whatever it was and ‘just get over it’. If you are in any kind of distress, working with Owen is the greatest thing you can do for yourself. I promise you, you will never view the world in quite the same way.

I was under the belief that if I covered every single scenario, every possible outcome, I could get there before and prevent it - I just needed to try hard enough … I was THE BEST at worrying, and doomsday worst-case scenarios were my specialty, so Owen got me out of that. (2 mins, 3:10 - 5:18)

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“You really helped me to see things differently”

You really helped me to see things differently, TAKE ACTION (which was so good) and to pull head out of ass! From there I was able to start doing something more effective. I now see the ‘reaction’ as actually a useful message that I wanted to do something differently.

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“I have gotten release working with Owen that I have not experienced with anyone else”

It has been weird how I have been at peace. I have had moments of sadness and anger and self pity but for the most part peace. I was finally able to see all of my co-dependency and control. I didn’t realize how shut down I had become trying to keep myself safe while cutting myself completely off and suffocating us both. I am totally amazed. I owe all this change to you and the God that brought you into my life. All this control, unforgiveness, fear has been blocking my heart for years.

I truly feel the way you do things has had more impact than any of the other stuff! I really don’t know why yours is different but it is. That Diet Coke is long gone. I don’t even think about chocolate ice cream or Wendy’s Frosty’s. Amazing stuff, I tried tapping on those things to no avail.

I have been doing ‘The Cookie’ on drug cravings and using dreams and am receiving incredible results. I am absolutely blown away. I worked on an IV heroin user - she was absolutely unable to find the craving or get any rush when we finished. Nothing, she has nothing. She has had no cravings or dreams. She doesn’t realize what has been removed. I feel confident she would have left treatment to get high had we not worked together. This is LIFE changing! Right now I have tested for 3 months with report of no return.

I am grateful for the different talent and experience of each practitioner I have worked with. Personally I have gotten release working with Owen that I have not experienced with anyone else. He can do in one session what was only talked about in traditional therapy. Owen has taught me some incredible techniques that I use. Our minds and bodies are so complex there are no one-size-fits-all solutions.

I’d made a relationship connection to ice-cream when I was thirteen years old … I continue to be amazed that it’s just gone … I can’t say enough about Owen and what he’s done for my life, and for my family’s life. (6 months after the ice-cream session) (2 mins)

For the last 25 years I have drank Diet Coke, I’m talking like 8 to 12 of those, what are they, 24-, 32- ounce servings a day. … I got really angry about something so I just whipped in to a fast-food restaurant and I went to order a Diet Coke and ‘Tea’ came out of my mouth and I was like ‘ohmigosh’ … I really believe that’s life-changing, so I owe that all to Owen. (13 months after the Diet-Coke session) (3 mins)

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“better flow, than i have ever been in last 12 years”

I am doing better week by week, creating a new live, new friends, and bought a new appartement. I am really getting in a better flow, than i have ever been in last 12 years. My absurt stress reactions to sounds are gone. I am moving next month to the nearest big city, so my live has changed a bit!

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“you just changed my life forever!”

You pushed me past what seemed to be an impenetrable barrier today with six little words … you just changed my life forever! :) xo … feel like I was just run over by a train :/ … addressed lots of issues … Thanks for my last session - the most profound you’ve ever done I think! Still can’t get that ‘worried’ feeling … other changes too … and if I start to worry about something - it’s either ‘refocusing’ Any way, something that ‘I’ find funny! Looking forward to awesomeness and ‘discovering’ myself!! … Nah, shouldn’t be Owen Parachute… should be Owen FANTASTIC!!!!

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“Thank you Owen for getting to the heart of the matter so quickly”

Thank you Owen for getting to the heart of the matter so quickly, (you have amazing skills for quickly bypassing the bullshit), for giving me new tools, and encouraging me to keep triggering the shit out of myself by going to those places that exist in my life right now that I have major resistance around and react strongly too - to be totally observant of what I do to trigger myself and to address it in the moment without getting caught up in the emotions.

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“You never let me get so far:) I felt very safe”

Thank you so much Owen Pearn :) The session today was really an eye opener. I had no idea how i skip the moment before i ‘feel bad’ Thank you very much for teaching what i really needed to learn about myself:) I really was prepared for lot of tears with a box of tissues:P You never let me get so far:) I felt very safe:) You are really awesome:)

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Other

Amazing, thank you so much. (Europe)

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“you’re brilliant”

anon: i want to die… i’m not going to kill myself… but i wish i could die

anon: well you’re brilliant
anon: again THANK YOU SO SO SO MUCH!!!

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Change does not happen overnight - until it’s ready to happen, then overnight is exactly when it happens.

Robert Brault


“ppl can be important”

anon: whats the best way to end my life

anon: thank you u made me realized how stupid was the thinking of ending my life just becouse i didnt knew ppl can be important no matter what they study

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“you very likely saved my soul”

anon: my wife had some sort of existential/midlifecrisis and walked out on me

Owen Parachute: how much pain r u in?

anon: suicidal ideation

6 weeks later:

anon: what i wanted to tell you is that you very likely saved my soul, if not my marriage

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“a big curtain has lifted”

Anon had “pretty bad panic disorder” and was freaking out on a regular basis. Her circle of safety was decreasing and she was unable to grocery-shop by herself. She really wanted to grocery-shop by herself. She’d been to various psychiatrist/psychologist-type people on and off for 10 years for this and other issues. We spent some time together over a few months. She now grocery-shops by herself.

anon: I was driving over the hill and I saw the supermarket and usually I’d be freaking out when I left the house but it’s like a big curtain has lifted.

Owen Parachute: So it's late 2010, can you remember, before now, when you last went grocery shopping by yourself?

anon: 1996

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“Thank GOD!! so how… how do I change this!!”

Owen Parachute: so i suggest to you that this is how you do relationships
Owen Parachute: this is how you learned to do it
Owen Parachute: and this is strike 3

anon: Ew! Really… because I hate it

Owen Parachute: dad, exfiance, best friend

anon: yeah it is strike 3… I don’t want to do this anymore!!

Owen Parachute: so i suggest to you that this is something you're doing and it's not about what your best friend is doing
Owen Parachute: there's good news
Owen Parachute: if it's someone else's, you can't change it
Owen Parachute: if it's yours, you can

anon: Thank GOD!! so how… how do I change this!!

a few minutes later:

Owen Parachute: anything else before we go?

anon: nope. well except… jesus loves you…. aloha… and thanks

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“One of the biggest things I learnt is how much control we have over our past”

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“Ive done it to all the stuff and its worked”

Owen Parachute: do you replay your memories with her and beat yourself up with them?

anon: all the time

a few minutes later:

Owen Parachute: what happens when you close your eyes and try to replay THAT memory now?

anon: its weird
anon: i dont know
anon: i can try to think of it
anon: but i just sort of feel the spot where i hit my head
anon: and i cant really get mad about it now
anon: wtf
anon: i cant really even think about it
anon: i mean i can invision it but i cant get mad about it
anon: i want to like
anon: do the knocking thing for every bad memory ive ever had
anon: all 10 million of them
anon: what you just gave me I can honestly say may have been one of the biggest things
anon: i think i ever fucking heard

2 days later:

anon: the fuck have you found
anon: i struggle to understand the mechanism of this
anon: but this whole thing
anon: Ive done it to all the stuff and its worked
anon: turn those negative memories to positive ones
anon: its so smart

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Hello, babies. Welcome to Earth. It’s hot in the summer and cold in the winter. It’s round and wet and crowded. At the outside, babies, you’ve got about a hundred years here. There’s only one rule that I know of, babies - “God damn it, you’ve got to be kind.”

Kurt Vonnegut (God Bless You, Mr. Rosewater)


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